You’ve done the hard part – giving birth. Now it’s just playgroups and nursery rhymes, right?  If only that were true. There are no end of little hurdles we all have to hop over on this journey that is being a parent.  Just when you think you’ve got it cracked, up pops a new challenge where a little perspective and assistance can really help navigate you through. This is by no means comprehensive, but we’ve pulled together a few resources to get you started, and point you in the direction of further information on a variety of these potential struggles.


Feeding can be one of the hardest parts of being a new mum, but whether you are using breast, bottle or both, there are lots of resources to help you.

Local Breastfeeding Clinics (more details on the daily calendar)

Monday 10-12pm The Grove Pub, 39 Oldridge Rd, Balham, SW12 8PN (run by NCT)

Tuesday 2-3.30pm Balham Health Centre

Wednesday & Friday 10-2pm Macmillan Way Surgery

Thursday 10-2pm Steers Mead Children’s Centre

Friday 10-12pm Franciscan Children’s Centre

National Breastfeeding Helpline

A voice at the end of the phone with practical real world advice.  They are open 9.30am – 9.30pm every day of the year.  Reach them on 0300 100 0212 or you can live chat here.

La Leche League

Mother to mother support, through their helpline or chatline, accessed here, and through local meetings.  LLL Clapham host a coffee morning every Tuesday at the Imperial Durbar, Tooting Bec, 10.30-12pm.  Contact them here or on facebook .

Association of Breastfeeding Mothers

There are lots of useful resources on their website, here, and also a helpline 0300 330 5453 open 9.30am-10.30pm.

Breastfeeding Support Groups – This handy resource lists hundreds of support groups in the UK. So you can easily find a breastfeeding support group in your area

Local Lactation Consultants

There are a number of hugely empathetic experienced lactation consultants working locally who can give you a home visit and be on the phone with advice.  Ask on Tooting Parents Network facebook group for latest recommendations; here are a few to get you started:

Indira Lopez-Bassols

Sue Ricks via the Fountain Suite at St Georges

Chloe Dymond

Siobhan Pearce

Bottle Feeding

There is a local support group for mums who are bottle feeding (including mix feeding alongside breastfeeding), based on facebook to give virtual hugs and support.  Find them here.

Tongue Tie

One surprisingly common problem with feeding can be tongue tie – where the babies tongue is too tightly anchored to the bottom of the mouth.  If you are still under the care of your midwife or health visitor, they should be your first port of call and can refer you for fast treatment at St Georges.  If you find you are facing a wait, or aren’t getting clear answers, there are a number of consultants working locally who can help with a diasnosis and treatment.

Ann Dobson

Carmelle Gentle

Baby Carrying

The first step to getting out and about with your baby is working out how you’re going to transport them around. For many, babywearing is the most practical, giving you hands free cuddles. Wearing your baby can also be useful if you have a baby with health concerns – for example babies with reflux often benefit from being upright after a feed.

We’re lucky in Tooting to have the Wear My Baby Boutique – a specialist baby carrier shop, hire service and advice where you can try a range of carriers to see which best suits you and your baby. You can hire before you buy so that you can be absolutely sure that you’re choice really works in practice. They offer in-store Consultations 5 days a week, where you can fitted for a sling or take your own carriers and learn how to use them safely and comfortably.

Wear My Baby Boutique
58 Upper Tooting Road
SW17 7PB

Open Tuesday – Saturday
0345 222 9004
All the details and booking info:


The current advice is to start introducing solid foods at 6 months, if your baby can sit up and hold their up head, can co-ordinate eye, hand and mouth, and can swallow.  Until the age of 1, food is really for fun so don’t stress the weaning, and have some fun exploring flavours and textures with your little one.  The NHS has clear basic advice on introducing first foods and there are lots of recipes online to give you inspiration.

Baby Led Weaning

There is some debate about whether purees can lead to picky eaters, which has led to a trend for baby-led weaning – letting the child do it all.  Read more about the theory and approach here.


Many parents are worried about choking risk so this is a great time to do a baby first aid course.  Smallwood Children’s Centre offers a course (contact the centre for details) or there are a number of private providers such as Daisy First Aid or First Aid for Life who run regular local courses or will come to your house (it can be a good thing to do together with your NCT group).


This can be the time that allergies become apparent.  It’s advised to introduce nuts, dairy, eggs, fish & shellfish, wheat and gluten one at a time.  Your GP can refer you to the allergy clinic at St Georges if you have a concern that your child has allergies. Lots of local parents have been through this so do ask for tips and advice on the Tooting Parent Network facebook group.


No baby should sleep through; regular wake ups is a way of staying alive and a sign of an active brain. So don’t panic if you little one isn’t sleep 12 hours straight at 4 weeks old.  Many of us have 5 year olds who still haven’t slept through the night.  Having said that, sleep deprivation can adversely affect your ability to be a great parent, can affect relationships, and is not pleasant, so it’s worth doing what you can to encourage healthy sleep habits.


Numerous books exist all with slightly different takes.  The most recommended from the parents of Tooting are Sensational Sleep Plan by Alison Scott Wright; How to Enjoy Year One by Rachel Waddilove; No Cry Sleep Solution; Gina Ford; Healthy Sleep Habits Happy Child.


Various sleep training consultants are available locally – either in person staying over at your home, visting for a daytime consultation, or available on the phone or by email.  It’s worth asking around for personal recommendations, again the Tooting Parent Network on facebook is a great place to do that.

Classes and Workshops

Practical tips can also be gained from classes and workshops.  Nurturing Mums run post-natal classes covering sleep tips, see below for details, while Doctor and Daughter run specific toddler and baby sleep workshops.

General Advice

Newly launched locally is a series of post-natal classes covering many of the above topics.  Nurturing Mums run a 5 week course covering baby development, sleep, first aid, and an introduction to weaning with practical non-judgemental advice.  Details can be found here. The next courses to run start early March at The Grove in Balham or The Leather Bottle in Earlsfield.